©Sylvester Onyemalechi Edited by Coach AbbeyG.
The Bible teaches us that God is a God of signs and wonders and He is constantly doing signs and wonders even in our day. Signs, to many people are great manifestations of the power of God in the midst of His people. Signs are pointers that reveal the way or direct in the way one should go. Just like a sign post or board points to an address or a building, the same way, God supernaturally points us to some things He wants us to look at and deal with. This is the reason why Jesus taught that we should watch and pray.
41 “Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the body is weak.”
36 Be always on the watch, and pray that you may be able to escape all that is about to happen, and that you may be able to stand before the Son of Man.”
God is a revealer of mysteries. He responds to our prayers with revelations of His will – secret things we need to know to identify His perfect will. Watching and praying implies that our spiritual eyes be open to see and decode what God has to reveal in response to our prayers. God speaks through signs.
In a relationship, there are things that happen that God uses as a sign to reveal His will about the relationship. As you pray daily for God to assure you if you are in the will of God or not. Sometimes, He may speak to you with a witness in your spirit, a voice, a vision, a dream, and sometimes with signs.
I do not know if you have been observant to know what God is saying to you through the things you have been experiencing so far in your relationship. I want to share with you signs that reveal danger in a relationship that will require you to have a rethink about your present relationship. To close your eyes and ears to the signs that God reveals is dangerous, and you cannot blame God or anyone in future if you fail to take advantage of the signs now.
There Is a Danger If The Following Signs Are Present:
1. If he does not want to open up about the past
A man who is not willing to open up about his past has some skeleton in his cupboard that could resurrect and hunt your relationship in future. Sincerity demands that all in a relationship open up and be free to share about their life so far lived.
Not to open up reveals:
- Secrecy which is dangerous to the survival of a loving relationship.
- You can never know what is in his mind.
- A scary past which you never know what it is and how it can and may affect him in future. This creates fear of the unknown which is not good for a relationship.
- You never know what to expect and what he is capable of doing.
- Cannot be trusted for you never know when he is telling the truth.
To be Continued … Look out for part 2.
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